Anyone couldn’t sleep like me? Up for a chat?
This person literally came into my life just to ruin me. I have worked so hard for couple years to fix myself again, to put the pieces of my heart back into shape again. It took me around 5-6years for me to finally make myself ready to love and open myself up to someone again. And this person came recently and broke me down in an instant. I cant understand, i don’t understand, how do people change overnight? You loved her yesterday, you slept and then when you woke up the next day you dont care about her anymore? How is that even possible. I wish people knew how hard and painful it is to fix urself all over again. My heart has just shattered once again.
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Hi everyone. I am optimistic about joining the Wisdo Community, and curious about you all. I decided to look at this time after the pandemic as an opportunity to: start over. To lean into the social distancing, and let it help keep me from difunctional relationships, and take the time necessary for an honest self evaluation. I am finally ready to embrace new ways to connect to people. We are all evolving together,and these times are probably just as new to, and difficult for, you as they have been for me.
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I agree south Bronx. Why the race? Things worth our time are worth the time.
I’m old fashioned and was taught respect class honor compassion for everyone young or old and I feel some of this newer generation of men and women alike think w their pants and hurt a lot of people for no reason at all,they follow what their peers are doing and instead of being leaders they are followers.In order to be accepted into society you have to act this way look this way and if you are different you are a weirdo.You can’t have your own unique presence or style because if you dress or act different than your peers you are a loser.You are judged and ridiculed because you have your own persona and identity.That’s why society is like it is because we sit here and judge others but never look at how we are,why not like someone because how they are inside and their character instead of judging them by their physical appearance?People all over the world come in all colors and sizes they should be respected and appreciated more maybe there would be more happy people out here if we stop being so cruel if we stopped being so judgmental and learn to just go w the flow and learn to live life to our fullest potential and be grateful that we are here ❤️❤️❤️
I understand not being able to “just leave” I am in the same situation
So awhile ago I broke things off with this girl I matched with on an app for dating on the spectrum and I blocked her number and email and such. She got a new email or issuing someone else to message me still. I set my boundaries and she crossed them several times over and I just don’t want to deal with her in any fashion. I just hope nothing else comes out of this or goes further
My daily Zen 👇🙏 "If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion." -Dalai Lama
Try to say present so that you are judging him based off how he carries himself and treats you instead of being in your head and judging him based off of your past fears.
Trust is built so you don’t have to force yourself to be where you don’t feel you are..just be honest about where you are emotionally if you guys have that type of relationship..don’t say that you don’t trust him because obviously you are not sure or else you wouldn’t be asking..just tell him that it takes you a little bit longer to build trust because you’ve been hurt and that it has nothing to do with him and that you are trying to heal
I am not a professional btw..just some possible options lol
You're a queen and that's how you should be treated (Ah) Though you never get the lovin' that you needed (Yah) Could have left, but I called and you heeded Begged and I pleaded, mission completed Mama said that I and I dissed the program Not the type to mess around with her emotion But the feeling that I have for you is so strong Been together so long And this could never be wrong Girl, you're my angel You're my darling angel (Ah) Closer than my peeps you are to me, baby (Tell her, tell her) Shorty, you're my angel You're my darling angel Girl, you're my friend When I'm in need, lady (Uh, uh)
Good morning my friends (and good afternoon, good evening and good night to those around the globe). I come to you today with a question, one which I am assuming I am not alone in wondering and which I’m certain I have not been the first to ask: When it comes to relationships, what can be done when you grow jealous of your partner’s past? A little context: my boyfriend came into my life early this year and we have been nearly inseparable since. He’s a WONDERFUL human with the biggest heart! He TRULY lives life to the fullest and wants to take me along on the ride. Here’s the catch. I’m not so positive. Nor did I live my life to the fullest. My youth was spent in and out of mental institutions, hospitalizations for suicidal ideation, being depressed, and being alone. He too had his struggles, but while he became valedictorian and prom king, I sort of kept to myself and never felt as if I had lived my life. I did a few fun things (started my own art business at age 11, had a few friends), but overall I just feel I missed out. Furthermore, while he was bouncing around the city with one boyfriend after another, I was alone, kept my focus on school (at which I was mediocre at best) and continued battling with depression. I want to make this work. How can I go about letting go of that jealousy, that bitterness, and that self-loathing when I look back at my own life? How can I keep that sharp pang of regret at bay when he brings up all the fun and successes he had? I love him, I truly do, and I am so scared to bring him down with my negativity. If you can spare a bit of advice, I would receive it gratefully
Sometimes my bf makes me feel like when I tell him something is bothering me that I am unreasonable or crazy even. Last night we were at a party, and there was this girl there that we both had met once before that night. I showed up a little later than my boyfriend. He was a bit drunk when I got there and shared one singular beer bottle with this girl. Then they went off together for ten minutes by themselves, and then they kept whispering things to each other periodically. Now I come from a highly unhealthy childhood with an alcoholic father, and he was a drug addict, so I have never been one to drink at parties. My boyfriend usually doesn’t drink either. I always second guess myself and wonder if I’m just paranoid, but his interactions with that girl last night made me uncomfortable. I could use some advice on how to handle this. Thank you.
There's nothing wrong with asking to be treated right. And if someone makes you feel that you did something wrong by asking... then, they are not the right person for you.
My girlfriend’s mom reached out to me on Facebook a couple of days ago. This is my girlfriend who took her own life, I’ve reached out to a couple of people on here asking if it was a good idea to reach out to her and they all said it was a bad idea because they said “what would be in it for her?” Or they thought I was being selfish needing closure for myself. Turns out they were wrong. She still thinks about me and she thanks me for loving her daughter with the best of my ability. Why would certain people say that? I’m not selfish, I just think about her family everyday and wondering how their doing. I’m glad she reached out tho
Sending love to everyone who's trying their best to heal from things that they don't discuss." ♡
So my boyfriend and I both forgot our 3 year anniversary. It’s not like we didn’t know what day it was, we just lost track of time because we’ve been so busy with work and grad school due dates. we missed it and I feel terrible. I might be overthinking but is this a bad sign? (I remembered and told him we forget last night night and he said that we’ll go on vacation next month and celebrate but we had planned to go to get dinner together, just a nice dinner nothing crazy. I want to do SOMETHING instead of waiting a few months before we do. Should I bring it up to him and say “remember that you said we would go out to eat? Do you think we can still do that?” or let him think to remember to do something like dinner even if it’s past our anni date?)