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Fox
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8 Oct
My sister has been outraged because I’m still on meds after I said I’d decrease them. She doesn’t get the process and wants me to stop right now but I can’t . She cut a lot of my belongings and she won’t stop until I find a solution but I’m so upset , she cut up my bag/ souvenir from my trip this summer 😭 . I don’t want to talk to her but everytime If I don’t , she destroys another one of my belonging . I feel like I’m living in fear right now . It’s terrifying . I’m losing it 🥺😭
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Whale
8 Oct
Why is she cutting up your belongings? Can you explain to her that is not how medication works? It sounds like her issues about medication are influencing her behaviour. I don’t know which country you are in but can your medical provider or therapist help? Maybe with written material or actually speaking to her. This is seriously damaging to your recovery.
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Fox
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8 Oct
I don’t know why she does it , it’s just her method of making me upset . She won’t stop . it has been going on for two weeks now . I try to speak to her but she’s so stubborn that she doesn’t even want to hear me . She’s cutting my belongings because she said I should leave my home . (i refuse to )
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Whale
8 Oct
Do you live with your sister? Is she older than you? It sounds like a very toxic relationship that you have as sisters. I’m assuming you are of an age where you can make your own life decisions and she should respect them even if she doesn’t like them. Is there any reason why you should leave home ie is it an unhealthy environment for you??
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Evergreen Tree
10 Oct
im so sorry this is happening to you that is so traumatic and scary i would suggest trying to stay away from her with youre belongings if u live with her take what u can and leave behind things u dont really mind her destroying it she clearly doesnt understand the process of stopping medication please dont stop youre medication cold turkey, all of a sudden because of her i know its scary but its really not good for you ive seem someone get off a medication completely all of a sudden and ive never seen her sooo bad and even she said she never felt that bad before maybe take your sister to your doctor with you? so youre doctor can explain the process of stopping medication and why you cant stop it all now?
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Fox
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11 Oct
I’ve tried asking her to come to the doctor with me but she doesn’t get it . I can keep my stuff with me as a temporary solution but she needs professional help . In the meantime I will stay away but we share the same kitchen and bathroom, so I’m a little scared she comes and lashes out at me or becomes violent when I’m there.
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